Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Who's Fault?? "OUR" fault????

Today is another day that has sent me to a new level. You know when get out of a relationship, there is so many things that change within you. Your way of thinking, feeling, and how you look at the other gender.
Right now, I care nothing for the other gender (besides my friends). Today i was told by my x that everything that happened within our marriage was my fault. I a chuckle about this, i wonder how I get blamed for everything. I will take part of the blame but, marriage is a two way street, and it take 2 people to build a relationship, and 2 people to destroy it. I know in my heart it is not my fault entirely for OUR failure. As i was not the one that left, and i was not the one that wasn't willing to do couple counseling. or work on our issue. I guess it is easier to run than fix love.
I know i was not perfect, but who is the person that has taken the high road. who can look look back and say" You know I tried to fix our issue's, and our love.' For this to happen it takes to people wanting to fix the relationship. If that other person is not wanting to fix it, time to move on. I know that god has a special person in store for me when i am ready. I do not need to comform to somebody for everlasting love. When i am ready i will search for you love, until then wait for me.

Goodbye, Desiree Hope life delivers all that you seek, and god be with you.

1 comment:

Debbie said...

Oh awesome haha this is debbie :)